A spiritual perspective on Codapendency, Addiction, Caregiving and Lightworkers Serving


We made our plan
We chose our details and Soulmates carefully
We chose the timing and the continguency plans
We made our promise
No matter what happens
No matter how challenging
No matter how much we fail
We promise, we will never let our Light go out

A Light going out is when one chooses to be unconscious partially or completely
The strongest way to cause a Light to go out is addiction
Medicating to not feel through drugs, alcohol, food, people or materialism, etc… has varying degrees
The extent one medicates relates to how much Light is going out
Choosing addiction or full unconsciousness has a great purpose
When one gets to the bottom, providing they live and choose a bottom, a great REconnection to their Light happens
This Reconnection to a Power Greater than themselves and to awareness is so powerful it can change a Soul’s makeup significantly
It can heal the Soul in a way that many other experiences can not
This is not an instantaneous event
This is a process
Until one chooses this bottom and reconnection to a Power Greater than themselves, this Light gone out is a wrecking ball
This Lightless person is a storm raging through themselves and the lives of others
This can be subtle or it can be very destructive
It can also be infectious
The downward pull to anyone who tries to help this Lightless one before they are at their chosen bottom is significant
This downward pull is like a virus that is far stronger than most peoples level of Light and conscious contact
It is with true love and desire for Light Self preservation that will allow another to hit their bottom and choose for themselves
Out of pain, suffering and more than likely past life confusion, many of us often intervene and try to keep this Lightless person company where they are
This can only cause harm and growing suffering as we begin to lower our Light to their level and lend them our Light which they seek as a substitute because they are hungry and void of Light
The mental, Ego of this Light while helping can become very disillusioned as it feeds on the feeling of saving another
The mistaken belief can grow in density and cause separation from truth within their own Light and plan and from their Higher Power if they development saviors complex or confuse themselves as the other’s Higher Power
While this can be a lesson and part of the plan of evolution for both souls, this must change in the New Age and to support both parties to find their Light and protect it
When one is allowed to use another’s Light to feed on while fully unconscious, they do not FEEL the discomfort and consequences of their choice
They now have another way of medicating while they remain Lightless
When we keep the Lightless one company, we support their EGO to grow
This EGO is void of Soul and is careening to the cliffs edge
Do we want to support one back to their LIGHT or to the cliffs edge?
That truly depends on our level of EGO and Soul void
It depends on the helper’s baggage and awareness

Do you struggle with this?
Are you drawn to this message?
Are you one that suffers or has struggled with addiction or helping others?
Are you a mentor, counselor or sponsor in 12 step?
Are you a parent?
I have extensive experience in many 12 step programs (19+ years) and a variety of spiritual solutions

Are you  a Lightworker?
Lightworkers can often carry old programs to serve others from Ego or unhealed Soul even when addiction is not present
At this time, Lightworkers in the form of 12 step sponsors, care givers, counselors and other service professionals can mask their own need for growth and the Hole in the Heart with service to others
These Lightworkers are then taking on density verses healing and Evolving themselves

Patricia Ametherea

Published by: awakenhealinspire

I have been passionate about understanding energy and managing energy my whole life and its contribution to health, emotions and cycles of behaviors patterns. This has led me on a journey of study and experiences for Self Healing and resolution for sick family members. I have mentored women from dysfunctional families since 1996 and worked with children since 2003. Naam Yoga Therapist Shakti Naam Yoga Instructor Hatmonyum Healing System Practitioner Integrated Energy Therapy Master Instructor/Practitioner Children's Energy and Family Dynamics Specialist

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